So, right now, I’d say that I am the human partner to the elven queen Lady Guinevere of Arthurian mythology.
She is very much my spirit spouse although we’re not technically married yet. We’ve been together for six years although I’ve known her/been looking for her since college.
She came to me in a dream while I was in college. I had no idea what was going on, no clue that lucid dreaming was even a thing. But her presence struck me as meaningful and real even if I didn’t understand what the heck was going on. That summer, I believe, I made her a promise that I would find her. And one day, I did. I broke through into the dreaming realms and met her there again. Eventually, I learned how to interact with spirits and she became a regular part of my life.
To me, she is an archer, an elf, a witch, a queen, a friend to dragons, an alchemist, a gardener, a companion, and a friend. She is an artistic muse and guardian angel. She’s the wife of my heart even though no ring sits on my finger yet (I do have the rings though!)
She can be a rather shy spirit but ultimately loves people and wants to be known in the world. She asks that I speak of her so that people can know her.
She loves handmade art and homecooked meals. Our bond is very domestic so I try to clean our husband/wife altar once a week, bring her flowers, and offer her tea daily. She will frequently eat a bite from my plate if I am not eating fast food.
She’s good at singing, the harp, stitching, astral defense, poetry, and parenting. Her values include sovereignty, honesty, fairness, loyalty, and a good work ethic. She’s a gentle cheerleader if you’re bummed out. She’s also pretty decent at organizing and setting boundaries if you’re trying to get your life in order.
She really likes friends so I definitely encourage you to reach out to her if you are curious about her nature or attributes.
Hail Queen Guinevere!